I agree with danae, you should do whatever makes you happy.... unless it is hurting the person physically.... then maybe not such a good idea. We may say or do things that will offend people that we do not agree with and even though we won't want to stop.... sometimes we need to respect people. A great example was last year when a senior made a speech at writer's week on how he hates it when people use the word retarted because his little sister has a learning disability. My point is that, yes we should express ourselves the way we feel about certain things, but at the same time we need to moniter who is around us and watch what we say or do. You never know who may be hurt by your actions.